Pride of a mother as an academician...........

I'm very happy and proud to be created as Mother and grateful to God to provide me a chance to serve my children and shaping my students as an english teacher!I was taking pains to teach my kids when they were too young but made me very eager to see them in good positions.Both're well positioned and academically sound!What's more a mother needs than this?As an employee,I used to commute to my working place daily.But when I enter home,I looked at my children with their eagerness for mom's return,made me forget my fatigue!My body and mind was working with renewed energy to look after them carefully.I always think,they need us for their growth and development in allaspects.Once,the time comes........They fly as per their wishes like birds.....

[American or a Westerner's Spending time..........

Ah,Being an Indian,visiting AMRICA made me think so much!Why we Indians,are unable to lead this way of LIFE.We'r craze for money n savings for coming generations[off spring],brooding over past,which was sad or distasteful,or something couldn't be do so!Most of the INDIANS grow old and die without tasting the real spicy,meaningful life!As I KNOW,most of them mumble,groan and nag with broken relationships or feeling for others or their own disatisfaction,though they have all.We'r MORTALS!At any time,we may be invited by our great host of DEATH!Why do we livelike this.More over,weblame others.We sit together,think together,live together,not only under thesame roof .But,we take time to go out watch nature,beach ora garden.We must spend time for wives or husbands or children or parents or for our physically or mentally challenged people who are at home.Life is not only for money chasing,but also for living better ,livingqualitatively!Once you leave,or neglect,ITwon'tcome back,Whenever,I go out for a walk,it may be on road,or in the beach,or in the bus or train,the people othr than INDIANS appear cheerfully,enjoy together[huggingorkissing]which is a token of happiness ortaking their hands in hands both old and young friends or couples.Really my idea of westerners totally changed,after seeing their life practically.
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My thoughts after watching ALLADDIN at Shakespearean THEATRE

While I was in AMERICA,I was very much crazy to witness a Drama played byAmerican[mixed] artistes.It's directed byDESI,I thought so!The setting so good,the activity of artistes much appreciable.When comparing to theatre artistes of British,[1982]played at Ravindra Bharathi[HYDERABAD,INDIA] came into my mind,all the roles inMACBETH were fantastic! The dialogues with right tone,facial epression,the feelings were touching!Here its lost in GENIE,But some of the roles played well.GENIE is like a jovial character,showed here.If the artistes involve,committed to the role,make all the audience feel happy.Most of the teachers from audience[specially,coming from English literature studies] like to watch these plays,or dramas.Its most amusing for children not satisfying for me like with the academic back ground!

ELITED MOODS

;A friend in need is a friend indeed,How could forget a friend so easily,its impossible!One can't do so.After parents,we can share our joys and sorrows with our bossom friends.They may be hidden,like a seed in the ground till the drop of rain touches it.After many long years,I got a chance to meet my friend after long years like16.My heart leapt out like a peacock,seeing the rainbow,dancing with spreaded multi coloured, wings.HOW CAN I SHOW MY HAPPINESS?I can't write a poem.I'm not a PICASSO!My feelings are so exciting,its beyond my words.Who can think of his or her friend,better understand with heart.Long distance,long years,job schedule can't do the word of forgetfulness,more over take us to meet the world of happiness[INDIA TO AMERICA]In our college days,how we used to bunk[slip] classes ,go to DHARMENDRA[BOLLEY HOOD] movies,how many pranks we did to tease lecturers,how to tell lies at home,sitting together,chatting[gossipping] like the flash back is going on our minds 's screen.We both become old,but our cherished,sweet memories always bloom with fragrance of'FRIEND SHIP'.Before I pray to God,I must convey my thanks to her cousin and my daughter.LET OUR FRIEND SHIP,LIVE LONGER!

My observations

I'm much more impressed after my coming to U.S.A,rather than my thoughts over heard by many people.As an Indian,we give more scope to social relations,gossipping and groping through ignorance of thinking,worrying much about things which may happen or may not happen.Our illusions,worries spoils our time and we will be negatively charged.Our energies may be shredded out in blaming others,nagging for things.We never try for our physical fitness or mental growth.

As a teacher,I have been wasting my free time ,without realizing the importance of health care,yoga,walking,going for pleasure trips.We neglect our families for haunting money more than enough.When we really want to go out with spirit,our bodies may not be supported as they were left idle or totally neglected.

Mystay withmy daughter after a long time.

As a mother,I visited the place of Chicago,to see my daughter.But,being a college teacher,I observed her growth of mind,work culture,responsibility towards me and her dad.When she were with us,we treated her as being possessive parents.Now,I don't find her like the same,she has grown to such a matured level.Its up to my satisfaction,though she is away from us.Every educat ed girl needs an opportunity to grow her self,realizing her responsibility.At this juncture,women can be rescued from unexpected miseries of family ,domestic violence and stand with good stead,fighting aga inst all odds of life.

Possessive mother - independent child

My journey to new land gave me an insight and was a good experience as a teacher, observing a child from the west. As a mother of two, I brought up my children in a certain way. The two children were brought up differently as I grew older and kept learning as a mother and a teacher.

When I observed this little kid of 4, seated next to me, she impressed me very much. I was amazed by her maturity. She was very careful about her safety, took all precautions, like tieing up the belt round her waist, not being tense though her mom was away from her. She was very well mannered, she said sorry, if she touched me by mistake. Moreover, she acted individually for maintaining her well being . I really appreciated her mom with all my heart.

This child was a big contrast to an indian child of the same age.
This made me think about indian mothers and their excessive love and their over protection.
The lapse lies with the indian mothers being too possessive and not giving scope to her child to learn more, starting from a young age. The child grows like that without knowing proper life skills at home. And if this child she is kept at a boarding school, she is not able to learn through her peer group also. What's her fate? Who comes to her rescue?

It seems to me that if such indian mothers pay more attention in making their children more independent rather than patronizing them, they will turn out to be better individuals. Without this knowledge, they take longer to adjust both at home and office.

I think real love is to take care of them to grow well and not to hinder their growth as possessive mothers, specially Indian mothers. As a social activist, I observe many personality lapses which becomes a hindrance for such people to lead their lives happily.